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6 Effective Tips for sticking to your New Year goals
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6 Effective Tips for sticking to your New Year goals

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta

So it’s that time of year –  you’ve drawn up your resolve to do this, that and the other. This was the easy part, the fun bit.

Now a couple of weeks into the new year and already, sticking to plans seems to be a tad bit challenging.

Here are a few simple but powerful techniques to help you navigate this tricky period between writing down your goal and actually realizing it.

Let’s dive in.

1. Focus on the Routine rather than the Goal

Sure, it starts with choosing a goal, but the path to the goal is forming a routine of habits that lead to the goal. And then sticking to the routine. For example, if you plan on losing weight this year, you may have joined a gym or dance class and have planned to eat right. It’s now important to focus on making it to the gym regularly and giving each meal a good thought rather than constantly think about your weight. Once you select a goal, put it aside and focus on the routine itself.

 

2. Schedule your routine 

Once you’ve planned out a routine to achieve your big goal, it becomes imperative to nail down a specific day/time to perform it. Consistency is key. A friend who is a busy mom with a full-time job still finds the time to blog regularly. Her routine is to write after the family has retired for the day Every single day, once she’s done with dinner, kids homework, and other trappings of being mom, she sits down at her computer and writes – thus staying consistent.

 

3. Find an Accountability Buddy

Not just a gym buddy or a running mate, but someone you subconsciously feel answerable to. This person would keep you from falling off the wagon. One of my dance students turned her aunt into her accountability buddy. Their deal was that the student would put in her practice time every day of the week, and that weekend her aunt would drive her across town to this fabulous bakery for a special treat. Based on an honor system, it worked wonders and I could see the difference it made to my student’s progress in her training.

 

4. Break down goals into smaller achievable sub-goals

“How do you eat an elephant? Bite by bite.”
Your goal may look daunting at the beginning. By breaking it up into smaller goals it becomes less challenging and more doable. I started my year with the daunting task of choreographing 8 intricate dances in a short period of time. But then once I focus on one dance, one paragraph, one line of the song, it dissolves to a comfortable and achievable level. And I know I will get my 8 dances done in good time.

 

5. Anticipate Hurdles

Life happens. No matter how disciplined you are there will be days when your routine is tossed up. If you plan ahead for these intrusions you can still come out ahead. For example, if you are on a healthy eating streak and know there’s a party coming up where you will face a tantalizing table, you can ensure you are well filled up before you get there. Should you enjoy the goodies – hey, live a little – you can plan your diet to shave off some calories the next day. Consciously managing such moments will help you stay on your path towards your chosen goal.

 

6. Reward Yourself

A couple of years ago, a friend of mine, resolved to shed 8 pounds within the year. She was committed to her goal and went about it in a well-disciplined manner.  For every pound she lost she treated herself to a massage.  My friend loved a good massage, and it helped her stay the course and remain committed to shedding the next pound. She had set up something for every half a pound too! Rewards serve up positive enforcement and help build momentum for the next milestone towards your goal.

 

In a nutshell, here are a few simple but effective tips to help you stay the course towards your goal.

1. Commit to a routine

2. Schedule your routine

3. Get yourself an accountability buddy.

4. Break down goals into smaller sub-goals.

5. Anticipate obstacles and plan for them

6. Reward yourself at every milestone.

 

 

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10 Pointers for a Polished Presence at Virtual Meetings
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10 Pointers for a Polished Presence at Virtual Meetings

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta

Worldwide tens of millions of students and office goers have now adopted virtual spaces to conduct lessons or business meetings, thanks to the global pandemic. By the looks of it, we have come to accept working from home as our new normal for the foreseeable future. Heck, even social gatherings, graduation parties, and baby showers are happening remotely.

So now with us spending a major chunk of our day in front of one or more screens, it’s a good idea to give some thought to how to look your best on a screen at a virtual meeting.

Here are 10 best practices for an effective online look.

1. Lighting

Natural light is best for the most flattering on-screen look. Sit facing a window that allows for natural light to flood your face and the room.  This makes sure the back of the room is also lit up and not dark.

If you have no access to a front face window, you could use a table lamp facing you; in which case go with a tungsten bulb rather than a LED bulb.

2. Camera Angle

Always have the webcam at your eye level or a touch higher. Any lower and it ends up focusing on your nostrils and double chin, not the prettiest sight for your viewers.

If the webcam is too low place some heavy-duty books under the laptop till you get the desired eye-level height. Likewise, if the webcam is too high, you can prop yourself up with a pillow(s).

3. Background

A neutral background, like a blank wall, is the way to go. If that is not an option, make sure the background is not messy or there are no distractions going on. Kids playing behind you, however cute, can interrupt the flow of the meet and your attention.

4. Clothing

For the best on-screen presence, avoid wearing white or black or bold, busy patterns. A solid color works best for both men and women. For a pleasant look, go with pastel shades; lighter hues of peach, blue, green, or yellow give off a cheerful vibe. Tank tops and off-shoulder blouses are definitely off-limits in a professional setting.

5. Personal grooming

Stating the obvious here, but please be aware of your personal hygiene and basic grooming. You may have just rolled off the bed, but you shouldn’t look it!  Remember, never before has your face been the focus of this much attention on a screen. Besides, personal grooming hasn’t hurt anyone.

6. Sound

It is a good idea to have your mike on mute until it’s your turn to speak. Make sure your volume is high and clear enough. Cut out other potential sounds in the room; for example, the whirring of your fan. You could do a mike check even before the meeting has begun to ensure you are being heard well and clear. This is especially true if you are the keynote speaker at this meeting.

7. No snacking

Munching and sipping while attending a meeting looks rather unattractive, not to mention unprofessional. If you are in for a long meeting, plan on filling up prior to. Once the meeting is in session and you absolutely must get a sip of water, switch off your video momentarily.

8. Personal Space

At an in-person meeting, people respectfully steer clear of one another’s personal space. In a virtual meeting that’s done by avoiding coming too close to the screen, so as to not invade your viewers’ personal space. A subtle but important point.

9. Cell Phones

Commit to not using cell phones on the sly, to check messages or social media. They can see you – it will show and it’s not cool. Giving the speaker your fullest presence is an elegant trait. If you have an urgent matter to attend to, turn off your video momentarily

10. Sit down!

Avoid moving around with your laptop from room to room. Not only is it distracting to others who are trying to concentrate on the speaker, but it also shows a lack of awareness on your part, which, is far from attractive. If you absolutely must move, please turn your video off during the transit.

So there you have it – just a few pointers to come across as a fabulous virtual meeting participant.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Not Everything Is Locked Down
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Not Everything Is Locked Down

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta
The Sun is not locked down
nor is the Season
Relationships are not locked down
nor is Love
Reading is not locked down
nor is Learning
Music is not locked down
nor is Devotion
Imagination is not locked down
nor is Creativity
Conversations are not locked down
nor is Kindness
Hope is not locked down
As are many things yet unmentioned
Look around, look within
You’ll see, you’ll know.

 

-Author Unknown

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3 Simple Analog Tips To Boost Productivity
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3 Simple Analog Tips To Boost Productivity

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta

In this day and age of omnipresent technology, there are still a few analog options one can choose over digital ones to improve day to day efficiency.

The following are 3 low tech features that I prefer to their digital counterparts to stay more productive (and sane!)

A To-Do List Book:

In spite of a gazillion organizing apps out there, I find a simple notebook works a lot smarter and in a more efficient manner, in getting through the endless tasks of each day/week/month. Scribbling to-do lists on scraps of paper is the other end of the spectrum, being only a touch worse than keeping stuff in your memory bank.

I start each month with one entire page dedicated to the goals for the month. The next page onwards begins my to-do lists for each day. I take it day by day rather than week by week. The beauty of this system is that you get a long-shot view of the tasks already accomplished and those not yet done. Also, week by week planning is, by default, visually built-in. Didn’t get the chance to make that phone call today? No sweat, do it tomorrow. Small chance of forgetting, since it’s right there on paper. So long as you have the visual of the list in front of you, you can prioritize and get around to completing your tasks, hence improving your orderliness. With to-do lists on random scraps of paper, out of sight is out of mind.

A Mechanical Timer:

Ever since I substituted the timer on my iPhone with a mechanical one, my productivity soared. Like most folks, I would use the timer on my mobile, but here’s the kicker – each time I reached for the cell to turn the timer off at the end of the cycle, there’s sure to be a tantalizing distraction – a text, a status update, breaking news. Turning notifications off was of little help.

A simple low tech object like a mechanical timer proved to be a boon. When the timer goes off –  and this is important – it automatically shuts off. Thus, I am not required to put the brakes on the current task I am preoccupied with, to go turn off the timer. It sounds simple enough but not having to stop and go, has a huge cumulative effect on one’s work. Even as I write this, I can hear my timer ticking away. My little timer has had a mega impact on my time management skills, letting me stay laser-focused and has enhanced my productivity to an unbelievable level.

At-A-Glance Yearly Wall Calendar:

This is the best long term scheduling tool to boot. While I still use the calendar app on my iPhone, it has not replaced my beloved wall calendar, especially the 12 months at-a-glance kind. There’s something to be said about the birds-eye view feature of such a calendar, where you know what your day/weekend looks like, say 4 months down the road.

As an exception, I do use the calendar function on my cell when away from my wall calendar, to prevent double-booking an appointment. Then at the earliest opportunity make that entry on my wall calendar.

Another advantage of this method is the whole family can use it as a common resource for scheduling appointments or social activities, without the chaos of over-commitment.

A 12-month at-a-glance calendar rocks, there is simply no substitute.

Finally:

There goes my timer, so here’s the bottom line. I just shared my trifecta of analog tools to dial down, sift through’ routine tasks and get way more done, on a day to day basis. It has, without a doubt, boosted my productivity.

Go on, give it a shot for a week. It just may end up being your most productive one!

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CBD 101
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CBD 101

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta

Unless you’ve been living under a rock these past couple of years, you would know that CBD has taken the country by storm. It’s all the rage, making waves and headlines, even more so, since it’s been legalized in several states now.

There are reports galore calling CBD one of nature’s greatest gifts to mankind and pets.

As a biochemist, holistic nutritionist and pet lover, I was curious about what the hoopla is all about and so decided to dig a little and research and educate myself about what exactly is CBD, how does it differ from its infamous cousin THC, how exactly does it bring about the various effects on the body and more specifically, what is the mechanism of action at the cellular level.

Here’s what I dug out –

Origins

Cannabidiol (CBD) is derived from the Cannabis plant (Cannabis sativa). which has been around for thousands of years. Ancient Romans, Greeks, Chinese, Persians and Indians are known to have used it for its healing properties. Hemp and Marijuana are two species of the Cannabis plant.

Interesting factoid: Our bodies synthesize some amount of cannabinoids naturally too.

Difference between CBD and THC – the infamous cousin

CBD and THC called Phytocannabinoids, are two of 85 active cannabinoids from the cannabis plant, which contains over 400 different chemical compounds. Hemp and marijuana plants contain both CBD and THC in varying proportions. Hemp has a higher concentration of CBD (less than 0.3% THC), while marijuana is more concentrated with THC (more than 12%).

The single most significant difference between CBD and THF is that the latter is psychotropic, causing the euphoric high for the user, also resulting in long term psychiatric effects.

The molecular structure of both CBD and THC are similar C21, H30, O2

The difference is just in the way the oxygen atoms are arranged in the two molecules. Minor difference in structure causing major effects on how the two compounds function in the body.

CBD is not psychotropic while THC is very much so. However CBD does affect the body in several ways and research suggests that it may have positive medical uses.

What are the effects of CBD: Medical uses?

CBD has shown promise as an analgesic, anticonvulsant, muscle relaxant, anxiolytic, antipsychotic and has shown neuroprotective, anti-inflammatory, and antioxidant activity, among other currently investigated uses.

The oldest natural pain reliever in the world.

CBD offers natural alternative for pain relief from chronic pain, as opposed to over the counter drugs. It’s anti inflammatory properties are getting more and more well established.

Epidiolex: First FDA approved CBD product

On June 25th, 2018, Epidiolex was approved by the FDA to be the first CBD-based product available on the US market for the treatment of two rare forms of epilepsy – Lennox-Gastaut syndrome and Dravet syndrome, which are among the two most difficult types of epilepsy to treat

CBD for a spectrum of health issues:

CBD products have been touted to positively effect a whole range of health issues like –

  • Anxiety disorders/ Depression
  • Type 1 Diabetes
  • Alzheimer’s disease
  • Heart health
  • Acne
  • Quitting smoking

Numerous research studies are ongoing to confirm or dispel the various health benefit claims of CBD. NIH data base shows currently more than 160 clinical research trials involving CBD are active.

How does CBD work

Our body produces some cannabinoid on its own, that is regulated by the body’s Endocannabinoid System. The EBS system, which is also present in our pets, is involved in many physiological processes, like stress response, inflammation, appetite, energy balance amongst others. CBD interacts with this system and brings about its effects by binding to specific receptors called CB1 and CB2.  While these receptors are present all over the body, CB1 receptors are concentrated in the brain, while CB2 receptors in the immune system.

More recently studies have shown that rather than directly attach to receptors, CBD signals the body to use more of it’s own cannabinoids, called endocannabinoids.

Due to lack of regulation in the market place, one is hard pressed to choose from the huge variety of CBD products offered, each claiming to be better than the others. Concerns over exaggerated health claims should be taken into account while experimenting with CBD products.  FDA has become more active in regulating CBD products and has begun to crack down on scrupulous players in the industry.

Final Thoughts

Just to clarify, I am not selling the idea of CBD or singing it’s glory. As the presence of CBD/hemp becomes all pervading, (it’s made its way into shampoos, cosmetics and perfumes!) we cannot be passive bystanders anymore. The more we educate ourselves, the less vulnerable we would be to advertising lingo, and the more informed decisions we would be able to make  – to CBD or not.

 

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THEORY OF MULTIPLE INTELLIGENCE
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THEORY OF MULTIPLE INTELLIGENCE

by Arti Datta
written by Arti Datta

Human Intelligence is an enigma – the more we study it the less we understand it.

It is commonly perceived that IQ tests provide the best measure of Intelligence. But these tests are skewed towards folks that are naturally good at math and logic. What about the brilliant musician who is not good with numbers?

Harvard psychologist Howard Gardner postulated that people are a lot more complex and in his iconic book, The Frames of Mind, he proposed that there are 8 different types of intelligences; each one of us has a combination of these 8 types creating a unique intelligence profile for every individual.

http://www.pz.harvard.edu/resources/frames-of-mind-the-theory-of-multiple-intelligences

Let’s dig in a bit deeper and look at these 8 types of intelligence.

Follow along for a bit of introspection. Which one fits you best?

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